& then the little girl sees my sweet Leila in her pretty dress, with her pretty headband on and her cute little ears pierced and her darling face and asks, "yuh have wan girrl or wan bwoy?" 😐🤔🤨😑😶🙄🤐 We raise our children, beloved and innocent as they are under the premise that there is no silly … Continue reading The Lesson
You threaten me, for what? Hopes of instant compliance? I would do anything, fight any battle to protect the ones that I love. There is a real and true difference between reality and the version you created. When will you people quit with your selfish self-interest? He is but a boy. Charming, sweet and … Continue reading A mother’s pain.
Would you like to hear the most crippling truth about my last few days? Well if you didn't you wouldn't be reading now would you? That aside, I have had the most emotionally draining couple of days. Same story, different day really, stupid scum trying new methods of making my once peaceful seemingly functional life … Continue reading Open letter, penned over coffee
They will appear to wish you well but speak ill words of you. People will always have something to say about your mothering skills. Heck they will have something to say about the way you breathe. But guess what, you are your child's mother and you do what you can to provide for them and … Continue reading Simple Livity
Father you are, not for the glory nor the hype. Father you are, caring for these children with all your might. Father you are, checking in every moment you can. Father you are, some wouldn't even begin to understand. Guiding him in every way you can. Protecting her with your very large hands. Playtime feels … Continue reading A salute to you.
The dark side of delivery is way beyond the labour, way beyond the pushing, way beyond the actual delivery. It's in fact in the months to come when the baby is there and you are tired but haven't slept. There are some people who think only weak people suffer post-partum or even some dark moments … Continue reading The Dark side of delivery thereafter.
The breast is best, that's what they all say. Yes we know the amazing qualities that come from exclusive breastfeeding but let us take some time to truly acknowledge the moms that have great difficulty in their trying to do so. I mean, persistence is the name of the game when you're trying to breastfeed … Continue reading Through it all, breastfeed regardless.
Oh how you nurture that life that clings to the nip, your nipple, your peak. Squirting nourishment so divine, the longer they feed , in life- the more they'll shine. Truly a blessing from the Lord, he knows just what is right! The little ones, oh how they bask in its delight. The breast … Continue reading An ode to the breast! Feeding of course!
Sometimes I wonder if I've forgotten how to be a woman. I mean women are suppose to be soft, sensual, sweet, charming, intelligent, strong, wait before I go off on a tangent women are to be a wide variety of things. So let me focus on the woman I was before my pair of thirties … Continue reading I am still woman. I just roar a little differently!
Dealing with emotional baggage is something truly hard to do. Seeing how it affects your relationship with your children though makes you wonder if that's even you. You may not have the intention to hurt them, You may not even want to scream or yell. Dealing with emotional baggage is truly like an eternal hell. … Continue reading Emotional Rollercoaster